Of course I waited too long to write this out and all my texts go deleted. I'm sure you know me well enough to know what I said, but the ones I remember or have an idea of what I said I shall fill in, so here is her side:

J: Lol amanda always making excuses for steven
M: ?
J: Lol for everything why he got the tickets why he can't pay me back for the mattress pad for the crib which was only 5 dollars
M: Why'd he get a ticket. If he can't pay you back 5 bucks how's he gonna raise a baby?
J:  Oh cause the city of rva didn't take outhe money of his account yet and he can't register his car till they do and the cop was stupid blah blah blah i've been nagging them both about his tags and inspection sticker expiring and i told them i could have taken them to the dmv ohhh u were asleep like i wouldn't have woken up wtvr and yeah i know it's all me or the baby wouldn't have anything.
M: the cop is stupid? seriously if your tags are about to expire in a month just get it done. He has the time he only works weekends.
J: yeah i know but i guess he paid it over the hone yesterday dn they still haven't taken the money and yet and yes i know it was a state op u are going ot get a ticet no matter what maybe a local one would have lt it go it's his own fault and i have no pity
M: I don't pity him either.  He's a moron.
J: i kow it anoys me too i am shocked he put the crib together last night because he didn't trust any of us to put it together and finished putting the bouncer together.
M: He doesn't trust any of you? He should be grateful that you gave him a place to live.
J: I know it pissed me off he's a worthless p.o.s.
J: I know I can't stand him half the time but so far at least he wants to be a father and his family wants to be in the baby's life.
M: Well it's good that they want to be in her life, but they haven't really done anything for her.
J: Yeah i know tell me about it. a car seat/stroller/carrier and let her have the baby shower at their place and  his grandmother got her an outfit for the hospital and his aunts and uncles gave clothes, but yeah i spent a lot more then they have and steven isn't even suppose to be living here my parents don't want him here.
M: That really amounts to nothing.

Basically this one just kept going on and on about their uselessness.


Second conversation:
J: Amanda was having slight pain around her stomach ash looked it up i guess the baby is starting do drop.
M: She told me she was having some pain.  I've been telling her since saturday to just walk around

J: I have been telling her that too lol and i guess she is suppose to call the doc but she won't d it
M: Why not? It's for the health of the baby.

J:  I know that she told me to but i'm not the one having the kid just like the medicine she has been giving over all this time she never takes it.
M: She needs to learn some responsibility. Meds for what?

J: Diff stuff her vitamins her meds for uti her meds for a yeast infection
M: She still has a uti?

J: No she got a shot for in he hip for that a few months ago i don't know if she still has a yeast infection or not she never used the cream.
M: What's the point of going to the dr if you aren't going to take what they give you. Might as well not go.

J: I know tell me about it it drives me crazy i hope haylee turns out alright
M: Yeah same here.

J: I don't know why i have to children as a ball and chain

M:
J: And of course he still hasn't help me put the car seat in and i'm sooo confused they were so much easier years ago

M: hahha yeah before safety regulations. I know amanda was saying they were putting it in his car tomorrow.
J: Yea well that's nice that doesn't help me.

M: George
J: I plan on it so far she hasn't popped i wish she would get a move on

M:
J: I hate people I swear

M: She needs to walk around then she'd pop her right out
J: lol of course she won't walk the lazy thing.