Of course I waited too long to write this out and all my texts go deleted. I'm sure you know me well enough to know what I said, but the ones I remember or have an idea of what I said I shall fill in, so here is her side:

J: Lol amanda always making excuses for steven
M: ?
J: Lol for everything why he got the tickets why he can't pay me back for the mattress pad for the crib which was only 5 dollars
M: Why'd he get a ticket. If he can't pay you back 5 bucks how's he gonna raise a baby?
J:  Oh cause the city of richmond didn't take out the money of his account yet and he can't register his car till they do and the cop was stupid blah blah blah i've been nagging them both about his tags and inspection sticker expiring and i told them i could have taken them to the dmv ohhh u were asleep like i wouldn't have woken up wtvr and yeah i know it's all me or the baby wouldn't have anything.
M: the cop is stupid? seriously if your tags are about to expire in a month just get it done. He has the time he only works weekends.
J: yeah i know but i guess he paid it over the phone yesterday and they still haven't taken the money and yet and yes i know it was a state cop u are going to get a ticket no matter what maybe a local one would have let it go it's his own fault and i have no pity
M: I don't pity him either.  He's a moron.
J: i know it anoys me too i am shocked he put the crib together last night because he didn't trust any of us to put it together and finished putting the bouncer together.
M: He doesn't trust any of you? He should be grateful that you gave him a place to live.
J: I know it pissed me off he's a worthless p.o.s.
J: I know I can't stand him half the time but so far at least he wants to be a father and his family wants to be in the baby's life.
M: Well it's good that they want to be in her life, but they haven't really done anything for her.
J: Yeah i know tell me about it. a car seat/stroller/carrier and let her have the baby shower at their place and  his grandmother got her an outfit for the hospital and his aunts and uncles gave clothes, but yeah i spent a lot more then they have and steven isn't even suppose to be living here my parents don't want him here.
M: That really amounts to nothing.